Blog Swapping with Cher at Love, Actually

This is so much fun to be swapping blogs today!  It was a few weeks ago that I came across Cher's blog and knew that we were a perfect match for some swapping. I have asked her to do a monthly post about some kind of date that includes dinner. Her date ideas are 'Dinner Dates for Two'. I thought it would add a new dimension to this blog and I can't help but want to get to know her since she is such a creative girl!

Hello! How fun it is to be a guest blogger on Maggie's Dinner Dates today! My name is Cher and I run a little blog called Love, Actually: Creative Ideas for Romance on a Budget.

I'd love for all of you to come visit!

Maggie has a great thing going with her themed couples dinner dates... and on occasion, on my blog, I write about themed dinner dates as well...for two. Today, I have one of those to share with you.

Here is my rendition of "Wild West Night". Here are the elements that will make this night go off with a bang!

Wild West Saloon- Serve Sasparillas/IBC (bottled root beer) and greasy appetizers (we had grilled tortillas, mozzarella sticks, and chips and salsa with IBC rootbeer).

Wild West Shooting Range- What's the Wild West without a little gun action? {Rubberband gun action, that is.} I covered pop cans with scrapbook paper and labels I made, which you can download FREE on my blog! Using a rubberband gun or your fingers, shoot rubberbands at pop cans you've set up as targets. Establish how many shots/rubberbands each of you get and the reward for winning or losing (perhaps a back rub or dish-duty)

Wild West Poker- You can also download my WW Poker Chips for free on my blog! Write on the back of these "chips" certain wagers (each of you will have a set that is identical). So, there are 2 of each chip: (5 min. back rub, diaper duty for one weekend, etc.) Then, when you are betting your hand, you'll know what you could get…or what you could lose if you lose the hand!

Wild West Theatre- This is optional, if you wanted to watch an old classic western flick or maybe Will Smith's "Wild Wild West" (this doesn't mean I recommend this movie....just a suggestion).

Of course, on my blog, I'm always throwing out fun ways of "spicing up" the ordinary, so I suggest these two extras for Wild West Night.

1. Go to the bathroom while he's finishing his sasparilla and appetizers. Come out with a badge on acting as the town "sheriff". Place him in handcuffs (dollar store plastic cuffs work great!) and tell him he's going to jail for flirting with a married lady! You decide the punishment.

2. Get a cowboy hat, some boots, and something for in between that goes with the theme!

That's all I've got for ya... Thanks for letting me interrupt Maggie's fabulous posts! You can see my original post and lots of other fun and creative ideas for dating and romance on a budget over at Love, Actually! See you there!

Western Party

from www.party411.com and my own ideas

Invitation:
*Create a WANTED poster as the invitation to your party! Roll it up with all of the party details on the inside, and tie it with a bandanna. Use parchment colored paper and black lettering.
*Hand deliver a colorful cowboy hat to your guests with all of the exciting party details folded up inside of the hat. Make sure to request that your guests come to the party wearing the invitation (the hat, not the paper). Guests can also be told they can wear Native American garb.
*Buy cowbells, paint the name of each guest on the outside and attach the party details to the ringer inside. Send or hand-deliver. Cowbells can be found at your local novelty store or discount mass merchandiser.

Decorations
*First, set the stage for your event with real hay bales outside the entrance. Use real or plastic cactus around the hay as well to really give your presentations some depth. Plastic snakes should be all around the ground, but fear not, your cowboys and cowgirls will surely be able to handle them. If you have one or can borrow or rent one, place a western-style saddle on top of one of the bales. Naturally, this setting wouldn't be complete without a longhorn steer somewhere nearby. Or better yet put up a Split Rail Fence with a Plastic Longhorn Skull and Wagon Wheel strategically placed to make your prairie scene realistic. (http://www.party411.com/)

*Make a sign that welcomes guests that reads:' Welcome to Mike & Junes O.K. Corral' or Welcome to the Freeman's Old West'

*When guests arrive greet them with their own tomahawks or sheriff badges

*Play traditional country music in the background like Johnny Cash, Loretta Young, Patsy Cline, Willie Nelson or Waylon Jennings. Or instrumental fiddle music.

*Hang "wanted" posters all over the walls with the host/hostesses pictures as well as a jointed American Indian, cowboy, and other western cutouts. Hang "Cowboys" and "Cowgirls" signs on your bathroom doors. Use rope to make lassos and hang as garland.

Tables and Centerpieces
*Use checkered toppers over red linens for great looking tables, and use solid red and solid white napkins (every other place setting) for a little more pizazz. Denim table covers are another way to go, too. You can even use metal sheriff's badges as napkin rings (pin one in the middle of each napkin). If paper products are the way to go, You can use country check plates, napkins and table covers combined with apple red cutlery is a necessity, too.
*A cactus makes a wonderful centerpiece for a western party! Tie red and blue bandannas around your clay pots to brighten up those cactus plants. Stick mini-spurs in the plant soil for an added WOW. You can find these in a toy store or toy department of your local stores.
*Another fun idea is to re-create a "western setting" in the middle of the table. For a really creative centerpiece, use an old-style metal coffeepot, a bandanna-lined basket (that you can fill with just about anything), some old-style metal coffee cups, and several bottles of fancy barbecue sauce. Just arrange these all together in the center of the table.

Western Menu
*The most popular type of food for a western theme party is barbecued anything. Whether you feast on chicken, hot dogs, hamburgers, or steak, make sure that you cover the food in rich and tasty barbecue sauces. Other great foods to add to the menu at this party are chili, stew, and baked beans. Don't forget a variety of salsas, chips and other dips. For unique ways to serve food try these ideas:

*Place a small bowl in the top of a cowboy boot and fill it with salsa. Use boots of different sizes to give your salsa bar depth and variety

*Use a real cowboy hat, turned upside down and line with a check napkin to hold chips. You can place bowls inside the hats, too, if you are hesitant about napkins.

*Tie bandannas around other bowls and lay them flat underneath serving platters to carry your theme throughout.

Games
Pan for Gold
Early settlers scanned the Western frontier for gold. Honor the history and tradition of what brought people West with this game. Fun for kids and adults.
Ingredients needed:
Sandbox
Plastic or Mesh Strainers
Trays
Toys
Coins
Crystals
Polished Stones
(Have guests each take a tray and a stainer and pan for gold. An alternative idea is to bury treasures in 4 or 5 haystacks)

Tin Can Target

Ingredients
Empty Cans
Water Guns
Water
Wall
Score Card
Rope
Chalk

To Play
Set up on a wall a long row of empty cans and behind the wall for extras.
Purchase enough water guns for your guests. Buy all of the same kind so that everyone has a fair chance. Make sure that the guns shoot far otherwise the cans won’t get knocked over.
Prior to the party fill up the water guns with water.
Draw a line with chalk or use rope to create a dividing line between the wall and where everyone will stand.
Have everyone line up about six to seven feet in front of the cans, one person per can, and handout the water guns.
Everyone shoots at the cans. When someone knocks it over they get a point.
Do a few rounds.
The person with the most points wins a prize.

Horseshoes

Favors
*Since everyone loves a low maintenance plant.. what about a cactus?
*Open a bandanna put some treats inside, gather ends together and tie shut with raffia.
*Vinyl horses make great cardholders for your food names on the buffet table.